Why do Some Republicans get irate when you don't mind them and do what they say?

When will they realize that we are not like them?.The difference is we think things through before we say them.I have plenty of conservative friends and they are not mean and angry when i don't agree with them on all things and the same for me.They make a point and we talk about it.Its gonna be different because we are different.But to deal with some is fruitless. Now if you can explain why being a Democrat im suppose to be like them... then i will think on it.Its like the House majority leader had the nerve to say the "POTUS IS NOT DOING WHAT WE WANT" Well he is the President and its his decision not theirs. Am i being unfair.What say you about that?