Am I the most unfortunate in relationship matter?

I know nothing of Vedic astrology and with a question such as yours I am glad that I don't. You will not cause any harm to your family. Your Venus has not destroyed everything. Please stick with Western astrology as no astrologer worth his salt would say such awful and untruthful things. You sound like a great guy. And what is wrong with Venus in Virgo anyway? Yes, you may be choosy when looking for a mate, but who isn't? You can easily see flaws in others but you state that you judge others by their personality and inner self. That is wonderful! Your chart is fine. If i had to choose one thing to be watchful for it would be that your Sun is possibly squaring your Mars. This means that you always need to be extra careful to choose your battles carefully. I certainly have seen many charts with tons of lessons as that is what a birth chart is. A life map. A guide to assist you in this life. Please do not go back to Vedic astrology if this is the crap they are sending out. Astrology is here to help others, not kick somebody in the knees from behind. Get the heck out of there and don't go back. That is my advice. I might throw a few blows in myself! Bless you and good luck though you will not need it as you are fine. Just fine. Bless you FF.